|Posted by beautywithinwellness on March 13, 2010 at 11:12 PM|
With all the millions and if not billions of dollars that people spend on themselves and their appearance why, is it that some of the most sizzeling celbrities or down right gorgeous people remain alone? Researchers such as Alison A. Armstong in her book " Making Sense of Men" point out to us that men want to be available to the right women ...But if all you are going to be representing is your exterior than that is all your going to get! ( That goes both ways by the way ladies and gents). She goes on to mention the four qualities of attraction ..one of them my favorite ...shiny hair! No wonder we all spend hours in the salon ...( Hope fully mine...lol) and spend all kinds of money investing in products. It is even biologcaly proven to back to cave men time , men chose women on shape intuitively to bare their children. (Did you know its healthy oils in the body create shine?...if your body fat in under 17 percent you are not fertile nor have shiney hair!....So run way models ...get some meat on you!)
But all this being said this is not the most important for a lasting atraction the number one attraction factor...drum roll please...SELF CONFIDENSE!...We just have to be ourselves...don't turn ourselves into gym rats or suck the life out of us...There is someone out there that that wants what you are not what you can become or wish to be!...Life begins from within and so does attraction...LEt it be!